When is the right time for a baby?

Because I want one now.

I know now isn't the right time, in an ideal world we would have more money, a bigger place, a car, would have lived a little bit more but I go through phases where I just get so broody that none of that even matters. I don't see anything wrong with being a young mum, we'll probably wait another year or two but even then we'll still only be 21/22 which isn't old at all! I know a lot of people that are our age won't even be considering getting pregnant but for me I don't want to wait any longer than that. I love the thought of having a little mini me and having someone to look after.  

In a year or two we should hopefully be in a bigger place, have a little car and we should both be on a bit more money meaning we could give a baby as good a life as possible. Part of me feels selfish for being broody now as I know most people probably are in a better situation when they're 30 than they are when they're in their early twenties but if you really want it, I don't see why there has to be a certain age that you're allowed to have a baby. 

I know now that I am not a career person. I have just started a new job and I love it and I can see myself working there for years, probably somewhere I can still work part time when I have a family but I don't have any intentions of going back to uni or building a proper career for myself. Some people might think thats bad and I have no ambition or drive or anything like that, but I do, just for different things. For me, having a baby/babies has always been the priority, even when I was at uni I was already thinking about how when I get a job, I might miss out on things or I might not get to have kids, I knew even then that my career wasn't ever going to a priority. I think when you're in the right relationship, you want all these things with that person and I knew as soon as I got with George that he was the one I wanted a family with, as soppy as it sounds. I have no idea when we'll have our first baby but I know whenever it is, it will be so, so loved and i'm sure it will be better than we ever imagined. 

Source.

Do you ever just get SO broody?

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